A rocky road isn't
necessarily a dead-end. You're out of
road when you hit the softness of water, the silence of air, or the sudden
stillness of a wall or a tree. An
argument doesn't mean the end of a relationship. It is persistent silence that you should
fear. So, when Christians of different
backgrounds and perspectives disagree about politics, economics, music, law,
etc., it doesn't mean that the church is dying, or irrelevant, or broken. Our disagreements mean that we are diverse
and normal---which is O.K.
Our differences should not end our relationship because our relationship isn't based on common politics. Our relationship is based on common faith.
The journey of Christian
love is often a rocky road. We walk it together anyway. We walk the road of Christian love and
fellowship imitating the walk of Jesus Christ because He first walked it for us.
----- Anderson T. Graves II
Email us at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com
Friend Pastor Graves at www.facebook.com/rev.a.t.graves
541 Seibles Rd.,
Montgomery, AL 36116
I’m not scared of an
argument. I fear the times and circumstances
when Christians who disagree just don’t speak to one another.
I believe that satan
relishes the moments when we use denominations and politics to give our
brothers and sisters the silent treatment because, if we won’t communicate then
we can’t coordinate and while we’re in disarray the enemy can pick us off a few at a time.
We don't have to
agree about everything. We can argue
about it as brothers and sisters sometimes do, but when Daddy calls, siblings
stop fighting and say, "Yessir."
Just because your application
of a particular verse is idiotic does not mean that I can't work with you to do
God's will as stated in the other 31,000+ verses on which we do agree. And just because you mistakenly think that
I'm wrong about a particular social issue, my brother/ sister in Christ, should
not prevent you from loving me and coming alongside to do what we both agree the
Word of God calls us to do.
Keep in mind that a
huge portion of the epistles are dedicated to disagreements between Christians
on socio-economic issues or issues of ritual and religioous preference. Yet those disagreeing believers are the
Christians who "turned the world upside down." (Acts 17:6)
Our differences should not end our relationship because our relationship isn't based on common politics. Our relationship is based on common faith.
Galatians 3: 28 There
is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither
male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
Ephesians 4: 4 There is one body and one Spirit,
just as you were called in one hope of your calling; 5 one
Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and
Father of all, who is above
all, and through all, and in you all.
Read Colossians 3:
8-17
1.
Colossians
3: 8-9. These verses tell us how not
to act when we argue with one another.
Colossians 3: 8 But
now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy,
filthy language out of your mouth. 9 Do not
lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds,
2.
Colossians
3: 10-11. If we have really been changed
by Christ, then our old priorities of politics and preference become less
important than our identity as Christians-- not Conservative christians or Liberal
Christians or Evangelical Christians or Progressive Christians, but as sons
& daughters of the Living God Christians.
Colossians 3: 10 and
have put on the new man who is
renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him, 11 where
there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, barbarian,
Scythian, slave nor free, but
Christ is all and in all.
3.
Colossians
3: 12-13. These verses lay out how we
are supposed to act with each other even when another Christian ticks us off.
Colossians 3: 12 Therefore,
as the elect of God, holy and
beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; 13 bearing
with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against
another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.
4.
Colossians
3: 14. The bond that joins us is not
opinion or interpretation of the data.
The thing that makes me a Christian is the fact that I love God and I
love you. What makes you a Christian is
the fact that you love God and, like me or not, you love me.
Colossians 3: 14 But
above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.
1 John 3: 14 We
know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethren. He
who does not love his brother
abides in death. 15 Whoever hates his
brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding
in him.
16 By
this we know love, because He laid down His life for us. And we also ought to
lay down our lives for the
brethren.
5.
Colossians
3: 15. As Christians, neither of us has
the right to get so heated in an argument that we “lose our religion.” Whenever my disgust with your position rises
to the point that I want to cut you off (or cut you) then I need to remember
that it’s only because of God mercy that He didn’t cut me down and cut me off
from eternal life. I need to be so
thankful to God that I can’t be hateful of you.
Colossians 3: 15 And
let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one
body; and be thankful.
6.
Colossians
3: 16. When it gets right down to it, we are supposed to be able to publicly
worship together because we each live in a constant state personal
worship. Jesus saved you. The same Jesus saved me. Who are either of us to act as though Jesus
was mistaken.
Colossians 3: 16 Let
the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing
one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your
hearts to the Lord.
7.
Colossians
3: 17. In the end the way we treat one
another, the way we serve others, the way we argue with our opponents isn’t
about the other person. It isn’t about
ourselves either. True Christians do
what we do the way we do it because even in our conflicts, it’s all about
Jesus.
Colossians 3: 17 And
whatever you do in word or
deed, do all in the name of the
Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.
Rev. Anderson T. Graves II is the pastor of Hall Memorial CME Church
Call/ fax: 334-288-0577Email us at hallmemorialcme1@aol.com
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